Femdom Session Information

Bondage

Rope bondage, restrictive games of all sorts, and mummification are things I am maybe best known for. I love the sensuality, creativity, and overall power I can experience when I render someone helpless.

I love to make the process a long one so my victim’s mind can follow and understand the completeness of the predicament. Equally I like to start with a fast-paced subjugation scene in which one piece of rope suffices for a quick and uncomfortable hogtie.

Once a victim is secured and sufficiently motionless, I love to add predicaments, electrodes, anal toys, clamps, a beating or bastinado, a smelling torture or gagging experience using my worn garments, a few carefully and hygienically placed needles – whatever suits for the victim and for my current mood. So much is possible!

This is also a good moment to leave my victim to simmer: I might need to collect a few things for further torture, be in the mood for a cup of coffee, or simply rest my feet on my mummy or piece of Shibari art while I scroll through my twitter feed. This gives you the chance to struggle and lustfully submit into the deep space of restriction.

Shibari

I am not a Shibari artist like the people who created those wonderful images you can see in Shibari art books. Neither are the men I had the chance of practicing and sessioning with small, slender and very bendy women 😉

Of course I know all basic ties and principles. I can confidently bring you into any position I imagine, I can hang you from the ceiling, and I can do all that in a safe manner to prevent nerve damage or worse.

What my victims really like about my ropes, and why they keep coming back for more (and it is wonderful when they do because familiarity opens doors!), is the joy I have doing this, the many variations I like to explore, the mutuality of the scenes.

I believe there is something highly communicative about placing my ropes around somebody like an embrace, tightening a tie, and then touching the places where the skin is exposed, tense and highly susceptible to my fingertips.

There would be so much more to say about these moments when, for me, time seems to stand still.

Mummification

Mummification or full enclosure is probably the thing where I feel at my most powerful. The techniques can be many:

Foil to cover a body from head to toe to make it into a lovely caterpillar.

Straps or belts or ropes, maybe with a latex catsuit underneath, or a big piece of soft fabric, or a few tight layers of foil, or a latex or leather head mask, or a lovely set of female underwear…

Duct Tape which creates a kind of stiff cocoon/Egyptian coffin (can even be decorated with different coloured tape to resemble anything I want), and pretty much makes the rest of the world inaccessible to the human being enclosed within.

As I said, what I feel most strongly once I have somebody enclosed like that, is power. Omnipotence. I might be extra playful with the equipment I forward-thinkingly placed on neuralgic points of the body inside – or almost forget that it is a person, not just a thing, lying there motionless and waiting patiently until they get freed by me again.

Punishment/Pain

I like to inflict pain. Not pointless pain, or pain “because it has to be like this in BDSM”. Actually I get turned off from inflicting pain when I get the feeling that I am not doing “good” by it, one way or another (I will shortly write about that in my blog). If something doesn’t feel right, I might talk to you about it or pick something else from the menu.

That said, it is hard to list all the ways open to me when it comes to punishment and pain. I do know all the “usual” pain play techniques. You’d better tell me your preferences if you have any, and/or your dislikes, and I will tell you if it resonates with me.

Some things I especially like are hand-spanking (over the knee (OTK) or having you bend over furniture), caning, impact play in general, pinching with my fingers and short finger nails, using clamps or electro, treating the nipples, and especially treating the genitalia (CBT).